The rhythmic Latino beat filled the hall as partners eagerly hopped onto the
dance floor, as if mesmerized by the intoxicating pulsations of the samba. I was
just about to ask my seatmate, Leonardo, to take me, then I realized that I
didn't know how to do the samba.
So, I sat back, and together with the other self-conscious and timid guests,
became a captive spectator. My head and shoulders moved to the beat -
involuntarily, I should say - as I marveled at the fluid synchronicity of the
dancers. The pairs sashayed with eyes half-closed, spellbound and completely
immersed in the spirit of the tempo. Leonardo, an avid ballroom dancer, held his
partner like they were in love. I envied his sinuous moves and wished I were on
the floor with him.
Then I thought to myself, I had taken up ballroom dancing lessons, about half
a decade ago, when social dancing had just started making a comeback. My college
friends, who had already contracted instructors for weekly sessions, succeeded
in convincing me of the health benefits of the retro dances.
Good for the Body
My friends were right. Moderate dances, like tango, mambo and cha-cha burns
as much as 300 calories in an hour, while vigorous dances like the jitterbug,
burns as much as 400 calories. As an exercise, ballroom dancing ranks alongside
swimming, brisk walking, cycling and tennis in helping reduce weight, control
blood pressure and lower the risk of coronary ailments.
Dancing also improves coordination, balance and flexibility, toning the leg
and buttock muscles, and is known to help build strong bones and reduce
age-related muscle loss and back pains. Dancing contributes to a better overall
appearance, poise and posture.
Furthermore, unlike repetitious and boring aerobic exercises that can overuse
certain muscle groups, dancing employs varied steps and rhythms, creative moves
and challenging shuffles, making the activity extremely motivating. I was sold.
Good for the Soul
Later on I realized that, for me, dancing not only made my physique look
better, it also made me feel good about myself - I could move gracefully, I
could swing with a partner, I could perform and impress my friends with my
newfound virtuoso. Dancing just made me feel good about myself.
Also, because ballroom dancing is dancing with a partner, it requires the two
individuals to focus on their partners, to interact and communicate through
touch and body signals, and together concentrate on perfecting a harmonious flow
of movement. The bonding is what I liked most about ballroom dancing.
In fact, for that short period of time when I'm with a partner in the middle
of the dance floor, nothing else matters - not the problems at work, not the
laundry, not the bills - just the dance, just the fluidity of music and motion.
Dancing in the USA
Unfortunately, I had other priorities to attend to and ballroom dancing fell
down the list just a notch above violin lessons. And then I had to migrate to
the USA. So, sitting in that steamy Florida ballroom with Ricky Martin screaming
to the crowd and excited dancing partners, including Leonardo, sweating the
night away, I seriously considered taking up dancing again.
I grabbed the yellow pages. A long list of dance studios offered nightclub,
ballroom and Latino lessons. I logged onto the Internet and typed up a search
for "ballroom dancing" - 35,000- plus links!
The interest in ballroom dancing had spread all over the world. Social
dancing lessons are being offered in almost every major city in the USA;
ballroom dancing experts are available for online consultation at AskMe.com;
dancing apparel, supplies and paraphernalia are all available for online
shoppers.
The United States Amateur Ballroom Dancers Association, or USABDA, which was
established in 1965 to promote the acceptance of ballroom dancing - also known
as dancesport - into the Olympic Games, has organized chapters all over the
nation to promote awareness in social dancing through low-cost lessons and
workshops. Chapter members conduct dance demonstrations in public places to
educate the people about the health benefits of ballroom dancing.
BallroomDancers.com, an extensive Web site dedicated to the promotion of
ballroom dancing, social dance and dancesport, provides online information,
through comprehensive tutorials and video clips, on various steps and innovative
techniques. They also offer advice on where and how to find a trainer or a
partner, and where to practice and perform.
There's also SymphonyDancers.com, which provides tips on how to shop for the
perfect dance training, and YouShouldBeDancing.net, that offers professional
lessons on practically all the typical ballroom and partner dances. Did I want
to know what the various dances are and how they originated? Of course, and the
Internet had the answers - at the ABCs of Ballroom Dancing.
Let's Dance
So, okay... there's about a dozen ballroom dancing studios here in Orlando,
Fla., alone - I should be able to hook up with one close by. I'll remember to
check if I like the atmosphere, the dance trainer and how they hope to oil my
rusty dancing skills.
Should I bring a dance partner? Well, I'm sure I'll find someone interesting
at the studio. But wait, I have Leonardo's number!
About the Author
Ruby Bayan is a freelance writer covering travel, gardening, backpacking, fitness, pets and animals, the Internet, and the craft of writing. She writes features, how-tos, reviews, essays, opinion, columns, resumes, and newsletters. Her work has recently appeared in Energy for Women magazine, Guideposts, Link-Up, and Suite101.com. She prefers to be contacted and receive press releases by e-mail. Samples of Bayan's work can be found on her Web site www.oursimplejoys.com